Technology don really helep pipul ministry to move forward when e come to dating level between man and woman.Yes, e don make am dey possible for two pipul wey no know each oda and wey be sey dem no ever dream of to get the opportunity to even yan with each oda in pesin to come know demsef, but as life be, for evri good side of something, the bad side go must dey too. So, I go first of all chook eye put for the good side of to date pesin online bifor I begin yan about the bad side too wey be sey pipul go need to dey careful about.
Love relationship dey in different ways but all of dem need 'maturity' for dem to last. To start relationship dey very easy but to maintain am to last, na there work dey becos e go need plenty patience, understanding, to comot eye from some mistakes, and to look forward unto the future.
For relationship mata between man and woman, we dey get the short ones wey fit be like 3months, 6months-1year but when the relationship don dey go from 1year to like 2years, 3years, 4,5,6,7years, then the relationship don become long term be dat, and sometimes becos of the stress of the day-to-day palava, dat spark wey been dey make the relationship bubble when una start fit don dey mellow and bifor you know am, we go begin dey hear things like " he no love me again" "she no love me again", "we no love each oda again". So my kajad pipul, naim I say make I yan una how una long-term relationship fit still bubble bifor we begin hear tori wey dey touch the heart!
Most of the time, some pipul dey spend almost all their time dey try to form for oda pipul instead of to be demsef; maybe na becos of how dem take bring dem up or becos of the kain job wey dem dey look for or do or e fit be to dey try behave one kain way to take maintain their relationship with anoda pesin, and sometimes, e fit still be sey na to dress or wear one kain cloth so dat dem go fit in or make pipul hail dem sey na dem dey reign--- "Omo, you jaasi" whereas dem dey forget the main reason why dem dey exist wey be to be demsef and funny enough, most pipul no know sey to be demsef dey very easy and simple to practice than to be anoda pesin wey dem no be. Make we chook eye put for reasons why e dey kajad to be yoursef:
To dey for inside relationship wey kajad love dey exist na one of the best experience wey you go want be part of and e get sometimes when communication palava go show face for the relationship, but the koko na how una take work things out naim go either make the relationship dey successful or fall apart. And the thing be sey without open communication with each other effectively, relationship go begin dey weak. E dey really take time and work to build up relationship so no be something to rush at all and e dey take both pipul wey dey willing to put in plenty effort if dem want to make the relationship grow.
For any relationship, the good days dey and the bad days also dey too. E dey okay to experience the two sides of the relationship but when the bad side of am done come dey plenty pass the good side, then time don reach for you to begin watch out becos anything fit happen wey go begin lead to serious break up.
E get wetin pipul dey talk sey "If you want get friends, you go need to dey friendly first of all" and na true. Dis signs wey I want yan go helep you to know who your true friend be and also to know how to choose real paddy dem for future.
Violence na something wey fit happen to anybody inside any relationship, whether the pipul rich abi dem poor ; young or old, tall or short but e go beta for you to notice am quick quick if you don dey date somebody and you come notice dis kain signs, naim be sey na day time you go begin look for black goat bifor night come be dat o!
For some pipul, to break up from relationship no be wetin dem want but for some, dem need the break up so dat dem go fit go dia separate ways for good. So my yanning for here na for those pipul wey be sey to break up no be wetin dem want, as hope still dey for una to come back, dat na IF both partners desire to come back togeda o! Oya make we chook eye put for how e fit take happen:
Sometimes, you fit notice sey some pipul around you or your friends dey dey moody for no reason and you fit no understand why or how you go take relate with dem. My pipul na serious gbege o!especially when e be sey no be you cause wetin dey make dem feel moody at dat point in time. Shoo! E no dey easy o!but instead wey you go leave dem waka comot or begin quarrel with dem, make you try to do dis things:
When e come to dey look popori , na very important thing for we human beings, both men and women and; for every man and woman wey fall in love with each other, physical attraction na one out of ten things wey make dem date each other. Most times, especially when you don dey too close to your partner or you don enter marriage proper proper, this tendency go dey for you to just relax yoursef and forget yoursef so tey you no go dey worry about your looks again but e no suppose be like dat.
Every relationship dey get stages and one of dem na when you begin feel disappointment unto sey some things wey you been expect to see inside your relationship or marriage no be wetin you dey see, but you go need to realise sey disappointment after you don get high hopes for the relationship na something wey you need to expect, but e no mean sey all hope don dey lost or sey you no go fit do anything. No! Hope still dey for the relationship to continue. To handle dis disappointment level when e show face, make you:
